Single Men! How To Find A Girlfriend In 3 Easy Steps

1. Why do you want to find a girlfriend?

The answer to this question depends on you.

It can be for fun, sex, security, comfort or a host of other reasons,whatever it is, to find the girl of your dreams, you need to know what you’re looking for.

You need to be with a girl who can meet you needs. If you’re just looking for sex, you probably shouldn’t be with a girl who is saving it for marriage!

In short, if you know what you want, you can narrow the search to find the right one (and you’ll be right for her, too!).

To find a girlfriend, you have think about your options, or you’ll get frustrated every time a door slams because you’re not actually compatible.

2 – How to know what you really want

You’re not looking for a billion different things. Take time to think and examine yourself. What are your needs, your hopes, your dreams? The key is to think about all aspects of your daily life, to identify what an ideal relationship would be – for you!

There’s no magic to this method, but it will increase your confidence and help you face rejection more constructively.

You will quickly realize that you deserve better than what you have been looking for. Women will notice your newfound confidence and will respond appropriately, making your work much simpler.

3 – How to put this into action

This is where it gets interesting. By limiting your wants and needs, you won’t be distracted by the first woman you see. Your behavior will reflect this and you’ll appear less desperate and therefore more desirable. All that remains is for you to

identify your “prey” and take action. Here are some tips:

Don’t be afraid to take the first step: many men are afraid to initiate contact (either by flirting or going in for the first kiss) for fear of rejection. These are the kind of guys who sit in the corner watching life move on without them.

Seeing a pretty girl and smiling at her is good… but talking to her is even better! Shyness is, unfortunately, a direct ticket to the friend zone. Stop being a spectator – step up and play!

Go straight up to the girl you like and start a conversation. Don’t compliment how she looks, and don’t try to use a cheesy pick-up line. Take note of something special about her (besides her rack) and start the conversation there.

If you want to say something nice, wait until after starting the conversation and having learned a bit more about her (tell her, for example, that a girl who studied economics and has a smile like hers, that’s sexy!).

If she responds well, then you can initiate physical contact with a hand on the shoulder or knee… The key is to not hesitate too much, and to guide the discussion so she’s mostly talking about herself.

Show your interest in a physical way, not with words: telling a girl that you like her is one thing, but showing her is the best way to move to the next level.

Now is the time that body language comes into play To find out if she’s into you, look for the telltale signs. Is she biting her lips? Does she touch you on the arm, or smile when you make a joke? Does she play with her hair or her jewelry when you make eye contact?

Looking for these signs helps you know what she is thinking: so, you won’t need to ask permission to kiss her. Asking a woman permission to kiss her is an immediate turn-off: it shows that you don’t know how to read the signs she is giving you.

Of course, you may be rejected if you try a direct approach, but remember that to successfully pick up a girl and make her your girlfriend, you’ll have to take risks at some point or another.

Also, having enough self-confidence to be so direct is quite sexy and appealing – it shows that you know what you’re doing!

Finding a girlfriend it totally up to you. Set your expectations, go out, meet people, and dare to take the first step. The more experience you gain in this field, good or bad, the smoother you’ll be. Soon, the girls will be wondering how to take YOU home!

- Cynthia Scooper

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